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I have an arbor. I flat love it. Husband hates it – bugs, mess, blah blah blah. I don’t care.

This year’s crop

I have an arbor because Granny had an arbor. I flat loved it.

It was covered with muscadine vines growing down to the ground and high up into the trees. I would drag whatever lawn furniture and discarded household items I could scavenge or spirit away under the arbor’s dark cover to create a playhouse, my own secret refuge hidden from the outside world. It was always shady and cool. Quiet except for the hum of the bees and the occasional bark of a far-off dog.

I would mark off rooms with rows of pine straw and arrange old pots, pans and broken plates in the kitchen. A rusty, metal chaise lounge was my living room sofa. A bed of straw covered with an old horse blanket made a bed.

In my playhouse, I ate the muscadines growing at my fingertips and sand pears from a nearby tree, both sticky, sweet late summer treats. I watched birds nesting among the twisted branches. Sometimes I would get the ladder and climb on top, the old vines supporting my weight so I could lie down and watch the clouds blow over head or feel the sun shining down on my face. I once entertained old Mr. No-shoulders, long, shiny and black, until he decided to carry on about his business.

Under my arbor looking out

That is why I have an arbor. I built it about seven years ago, and planted three muscadine and three scuppernong vines. They have since grown to cover the wooden frame and drape down the sides like long curtains. The vines have even ventured over into the fig tree and seem to be trying to touch the sky. The last few weeks, however, the vines have been heavy and droopy with fruit.

Sometimes, when Brother comes to visit, we go to the arbor and visit while we pick the muscadines and scuppernongs. As we talk, sometimes I will sneak one of the fruits into my mouth, pop the skin with my teeth releasing the sweet nectar, and then spit the mucous-like center at Brother when he least expects it. I especially like it when I hit him on the neck or upside the head. It is one of my greatest joys as a big sister.

Mostly though, I find myself out under my arbor all by myself, lost in the task of picking the seemingly endless supply of grapes – only the low ones for me though, the high ones are left for the birds. I wonder why I haven’t put a chair under my arbor where it is always shady and cool. I will next year, I always tell myself. I plot out rooms in my mind. I arrange imaginary furniture. I always keep an eye out just in case old Mr. No-shoulders decides to drop by.

Granted, I no longer have a need to play house. I can always go into my brick and mortar house where I have real rooms and air conditioning. But as the setting sun shines through the leaves, luminescent like stained glass windows, and I am serenaded by the buzzing of the bees and the occasional bark of a faraway dog, I am always loathe to leave my reverie.

I have an arbor. I flat love it.

 

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Decoration Day.

Myrtle Hill Cemetery, Rome GA

A day originally set aside to remember soldiers lost during the Civil War, adorn their graves with flags and flowers, and honor their service to the cause no matter on which side of the Mason-Dixon line they spilled their blood.

Memorial Day.

The same day as Decoration Day. The unofficial official beginning of summer. A time to put that Hawaiian shirt on, fire up the grill, ice down some beer, and celebrate the leisurely, beach-bum lifestyle you wish you had the other 364 days out of the year.

Every year, on the last weekend of May, the two are mushed together into a three-day long celebration of family, fun, and friendship, summer, service, and shopping, oh…and remembrance of the dead, military or otherwise. I hate it.

Or at least I used to.

You see, Memorial Day is the anniversary of the absolute worst day of my entire life – the day I found out that my first husband was having an affair with my so-called friend – and that they had been, in fact, in flagrante delicto for years. YEARS! It was the day that I realized that a big fat chunk of my life was a big fat lie. It was the day that I suddenly became a single mother. It was the day that my belief in common decency and trust in anything that seemed real shriveled into a dry, empty husk and blew away on the May breeze.

And along with it went a perfectly good holiday, an excuse for a garden party, a reason for dry rubs – all ruined.

“Why don’t you just forgive and forget?” they all said.

Because some wrongs are just flat unforgivable. They, by their very nature, so fly in the face of all that is right that one cannot, should not, ignore, condone, or excuse them. And to forget…well, to forget would be to lay yourself open to be wronged again. Fool me once and all that jazz.

“Why don’t you just get over it?” they all said. Because there are some things you don’t get over. For those of you fortunate enough to have not walked a mile through the Courthouse in my pumps, a divorce is like a death in the family. And, when combined with the ultimate betrayal of not only your husband, but your so-called friend, it is more like double homicide.

But time slowly erodes the sorrow, the anger, and the hate. The pain dulls. And, much like the death of that loved one, while you’re not necessarily thrilled that it happened, you learn to cope.

Then, ultimately, new life comes to replace the one that was taken. Happiness is restored. And you find yourself much better off than you were before. Almost grateful, even, for the selfish, horrible acts that catapulted you kicking and screaming into a brave new world.

That’s why this year, along with the rest of America, I will dust off my blender and don my flip flops and head out into the summer heat, not dwell a life lost, but to rejoice in the freedom that loss brought me – the freedom to be happy.

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“…when morning came, the east wind had brought the locusts.” Exodus 10:13

There I was this morning, in my gown, trying to sneak out into the yard and retrieve today’s paper from the foot of the pine tree without attracting the attention of the neighbors. As I bent over, my head close to the tree, I saw it, staring back at me from it’s perch there on the bark. It like to have scared me to death.

That is, until I realized what it was.

It was not really a locust so much as a cicada. And it was not really so much the creature its ownself as its hollow little shell clinging to the pine bark. Its back was split open where it had emerged an opalescent adult and flown away to serenade us through these last sultry weeks of summer. All that was left was the hollow shell, abandoned, signifying the end of a long cycle of life underground, two to five years for the dog-day cicada and thirteen to seventeen years for the aptly-named periodical cicada. More important, however, this small, brown hull represents not only the end of one incarnation, but also the beginning of a another.

Now I’m not going to yammer on about rebirth, resurrection, butterflies, and all that. I’m talking about Fall. Cooler climes. A chill in the air. Sweater weather. An end to this breath-of-Satan summer that’s been dragging us down. You see, this parched bug husk means that the first frost is only a mere six weeks away. Six weeks, y’all. Mid-October.

With the help of God and Trane, maybe we can last. Until then, I’m going to find all of the shells I can, decorate my shirt and maybe even my hair with them, and do the happy dance right out in my front yard, gown and all.

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P.S. The harmless cicada is commonly mistaken for its biblically destructive brethren, the locust. Locusts remind me of those horrible, nasty big old black and red “lubber” grasshoppers that plague South Alabama like, well, locusts. GAWD, are they scary!

Well, when I was in my early twenties, I was living in the old house where Mama and Baw had their office, right across from the police station. I came home one day to find one of these behemoth bugs blocking the entryway to my porch. I tried to shoo it away, but the heinous thing would not move. So I did what any reasonable person would do.

I went right across the street and politely asked Chief Parker to come shoot it dead. Sworn to protect and serve, he came with me to examine the situation and declared, “I can’t kill it.”

Excuse me?

“I can’t kill it because I will kill your soul.”

Excuse me?

Apparently Chief believed that if some creature presented itself in your path, it was a manifestation of your spirit sent to bring you some sort of tiding. Gives a whole new meaning to “don’t kill the messenger,” doesn’t it?

I was very grateful that the Chief was reluctant to kill my soul, but even more grateful when he agreed to move my soul into the grass. I never did figure out what it was telling me though.

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Dawg Days are upon us. Go on…draw that syllable out just like the heat and humidity that threatens to stretch clear to Halloween. It’s too hot to talk fast. Too hot to think fast. Too hot to do much besides indolently stand in the yard dribbling precious cool water on flowers as parched as you are.

This annual late summer conflagration and the contemplation thereof is some serious and Sirius business dating all the way back to ancient Rome when is was believed that the appearance of the Dog Star was a precursor to the hottest, most sultry days of summer. Back then, a brown dog would be sacrificed to appease the god in hopes that his wrath would be assuaged and the crops would not wither and die in the fields.

Now, I’d be hard-pressed to kill a dog no matter how hot it gets, but a snake is another matter entirely. According to Leroy, who Granny employed to help her tend her enormous yard, gardens, and hothouse and who was a veritable font of valuable information regarding all manner of superstition, all it takes to break the dark spell of Dawg Days is a snake. A dead one. Hung carefully over a tree branch.

Now, I am unclear as to whether species of snake matters, and there seems to be a debate about whether the snake should be hung belly up or belly down, in a tree or on a fence. But about one thing I am completely certain – this is some powerful mojo and it works. Fast. Without fail.

In fact, Leroy made it his common practice during the summer months to kill every snake he ran across and hang their carcasses up in the trees. Consequently, we always had plenty of rain, but not too much, Granny’s flower beds thrived to her delight, and two little tow-headed kids thought he was a mystical rainmaker capable of performing miracles.

I warn you in advance, if you go hanging dead snakes in the far reaches of your yard – in the far reaches because you don’t want company to come and there be a big, dead rattler right by the driveway scaring your guests, not because it works better if there is a distance – anyway, if you go hanging up some dead snakes, forget where you put them, and go strolling about, you might be in for a nasty surprise. But, should you decide you wish to pursue this line of defense against the most torrid, sweltering days of the year, you will be rewarded for your efforts.

Leroy and I guarantee it.

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Essence of lantana

My parents drank film noir cocktails – martinis (always gin, never vodka), sazeracs, B&B, scotch. When we were over the Bay, there would be the occasional cold beer. Wine, however, only appeared on holidays, and champagne was reserved for wedding receptions, and then, only those not held in the church hall.

When I moved to the city, I slowly became aware of wine and wine culture and that there was way yonder more to it than a stolen sip of Tickle Pink from an older friend. The regions, the grapes, the acidity, the soil! Who knew? I have to say that I am flat fascinated.

I am most enthralled by the jargon. I have the good fortune to be dear friends with the manager of The Wine Cellar in Vestavia Hills, and if I perchance to drop by there in the afternoons, sometimes I get to take part in a “tasting.” I get to hear people in the know discuss the intricacies of every little swallow in the most beautiful terms imaginable. They swirl, sip, and spit then spill forth with such descriptors as “I get notes of saddle leather and orange essence” and “it is extremely fruit-forward, but the acidity makes me yearn for prosciutto and Roquefort.” “Oaky” seems to be bad. “Grassy” seems to be good.

I mostly try to be quiet, learn something, and not embarrass myself. I also smell and smell and smell and try to smell something other than…well…wine. Why can’t I get a hint of blueberry and the worn pages of a Hemingway novel read by the sea on a stormy day?

Yesterday, though, was revelatory!

I was again at The Wine Cellar trying to be quiet and not show my abject ignorance in a public venue. Again I was listening and marveling. Again I was smelling and swirling and smelling again.

Then it hit me like a brick to the head. Something familiar! An essence, a note, a hint of something humble, homey, and native. What is it? I can’t quite suss it out! They may move on to the next bottle before I get to sound as if I too am in the know! It is…it is…it is…

LANTANA!

Before I could stop myself, I had blurted out “LANTANA” to the group of connoisseurs, who were now silent, staring at me with quizzical expressions.

Picture from Wikipedia

Do I get something Provencal like lavender? Something sophisticated like kid leather or rose water? No. I get lantana. The invasive, poisonous, leggy plant characteristic of every hard-scrabble, dirt patch where little else can eek out even the most meager life.

It is a plant, however, that was always featured in Granny’s summer garden. As a little girl, I made bouquets with it for my playhouse, breathing in its unique aroma. I thought it’s clusters of multi-colored blooms beautiful and decorated my hair with its flowers.

Fortunately, the vintners did move quickly on to the next bottle, continuing their lofty discussions over the spit bucket. But I could not move on from the aroma of that particular glass. It smelled like summer to me.

Lantana may not be very high-brow, but upon reflection and recovery from my embarrassment, I think it was an appropriate, albeit unconventional descriptor. After all, lantana appears to be sweet and delicate, but in reality it is strong, stalwart, and constant. Just like the wine. Just like Granny.

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Ahhh…Summertime.

My summers were spent at the home of my maternal grandparents, Granny and Baw to me, under the watchful eye of Sarah, their housekeeper and my companion. Most of the morning, I would wander around their expansive yard, playing house under the scuppernong arbors, catching tadpoles in the goldfish pond, or picking blackberries with Sarah for a lunchtime cobbler.

In the afternoons, though, when Sarah had gone home for the day and Granny was busy with the Garden Club or playing bridge as nice ladies are wont to do, my Baw would take me on all sorts of glorious adventures. One of our favorites, fishing.

You may not realize it, but some of the best bait in the world is the catawpa worm, the fat, green, juicy larvae of the sphinx moth, and we just happened to have a catawpa tree in our pasture. No amount of plastic worms, fancy flies, or spinnerbait can compete with a wriggling catawpa worm dangling off a hook in tantalizing captivity. So up the ladder I would go with the cricket cage to pluck the unsuspecting critters from their host leaves screeching in delight and dismay if one were to “pee” on me.

Bait in hand, we would load up in Baw’s old pickup truck, me sitting in his lap to “drive” us, and head out to wile away the afternoon with our Zebco rods and reels or, more often, just a cane pole. That evening, hot and sunburned, we would come home with our catch, usually a few nice bream or a catfish or two, to be cleaned and stowed away in the refrigerator for lunch the next day.

Nowadays, in the summer, as I sit in traffic trudging from meetings to music lessons to the grocery store listening to the sirens and horns and rap music, I long for the days of sitting by a pond with my Baw, listening to the quietude, sharing secrets and maybe a Peach Nehi, the endless days blending one into another like a hot and humid dream. Maybe tomorrow, I’ll rise up singing…and dust off my Zebco.

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I come from a land where the peach is queen. There are peach parks, peach festivals, a real live peach queen, and even a water tower devoted to her luscious, ruddy being. For several months in the summer, every magazine, cooking show, and commentary is devoted to recipes for cobblers and ice creams, tales of eating peaches over the sink, while the juices run down your arms, and equally sappy, syrupy nostalgia for our Southern sovereign and the barefoot days of old.

I, however, must profess my allegiance to another: the noble fig, the oft-ignored fruit of the gods, the red-headed stepchild of Southern culture. In my world, the Brown Turkey fig is king.

As the proud owner of the mother of all fig trees (pictured above), my anticipation begins when I see the first tiny green shoots of leaves heralding the end of winter and the coming of warmer days. With surprising alacrity, the tree leafs out,  and soon little green droplets begin to appear. That is when time stops.

For months I wait. And watch. Was there a slight color change? Are they bigger? Are they growing at all? 

Then, one day, all of a sudden like, I see the tell-tale dark purplish brown peeking out from behind a leaf! Oh frabjous day! Forget that floozy, the tawdry peach. The Queen is dead; long live the King!

Silently, unheralded by the press and stars with spatulas and catchy phrases, in all of its dusky glory, the fig has arrived to share with me its succulent, honeyed goodness. I take what I can reach. Eating them directly from the tree while the birds, bees, and wasps take the rest. I envision hot jars and pans of sugar syrup, a steamy kitchen boiling with candied delicacies.

It could be 1971. It could be 2001. But my summer, the summers in my memory and future, will always be about the fig. That is, until it’s time for scuppernongs…

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